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 Our entry in South Gate Centre's charity gingerbread house competition "Big Dreams in Small Houses' in support of the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford Children's Aid Society honours special contributions Oxford Review- October 23, 2009 | |
October 23 was a night of celebration and recognition for many volunteers, foster parents and staff of the Children's Aid Society of Oxford County this year at the Oxford Golf and Country Club beginning with a social at 6:30 pm followed by dinner and presentations at 7:00 pm. Special honorees for this year included Bev and Brian Simmons of Woodstock who have dedicated 30 years of service to the children of this community as foster parents. Jill Pariser of Ingersoll will also be honoured as the 2009 recipient of the Jack Ross Memorial Award for her outstanding contributions in service to children of her community including her involvement with such programs as Coats for Kids, the School Breakfast program and CampHope. On that night a surprise presentation was made to the 2009 Isabel Scott Memorial Volunteer Service Award to one of our many dedicated volunteers. Chris Williams was also recognized for 20 years of service as a member of the staff of the Society. The Society was pleased to also recognize Mike and Nancy Mitchell for 15 years of service and Elizabeth Caoricci, Wenday Lemanski-Killing, Suzanne Morgan and Al MacKenzie, Steven and Tammy Draker, Joyce and Warren Fischer and Lourens and Johanna Wisse were recognized for five years of service. Volunteer recognition went to Kelly Luissier and Cathy Korevaar for ten years of service to the Society. Robert Grant, Marilyn Grant and Mark Farrell were recognized for five years. Staff being recognized included Pam Myers, Ewa Kowalewska, Mercedes Hernandez, Audrey Service, Pam Marshall and Deb Lamoure for 10 years of service as well as Gisele Piche and Laurie Margerum for five years. Pariser one of many honoured during annual event Posted By Elliot Ferguson, SENTINEL-REVIEWMore than 20 years of volunteer commitment was honoured Friday night at the Children's Aid Society of Oxford County awards night. Jill Pariser was the recipient of the Jack Ross Memorial Award for her work with children in Ingersoll. In 1987, Pariser established the Ingersoll coats for kids, providing warm winter coats for hundreds of children and families. Ten years after starting the Coats for Kids program, Pariser organized the first school breakfast club in Ingersoll. "It took until 1997 to get a breakfast club going because nobody thought there were any hungry children in Ingersoll," Pariser said. Today, there are breakfast clubs in three of the town's elementary schools and the high school. They serve 19,000 breakfasts and 3,000 lunches to students each year. The program is run by a group of about 65 senior citizens who prepare and serve the meals. "It's a great group of the grandparents who do the hard work," Pariser said. In addition to providing children with warm meals, the breakfast clubs offer seniors a chance to get together in a social environment. The success of the breakfast clubs was the reason Pariser set up CampHope in 1999. The camp is a six-week summer day camp for children in need. The camp, split into a senior and junior component, runs at St. James Anglican Church and FirstBaptistChurch. Campers get two meals a day and are taught life skills and take part in recreational activities meant to emphasize their self-worth. Camp days include breakfast, games, singing, crafts, lunch and often swimming at the community complex. There were 90 children in CampHope in 2008 and there have been up to 150 on the waiting list. Senior counsellors manage the programs, each one of them having at least one year at university. Junior counsellors must have at least one year of high school, and Pariser pointed out 90% of the staff return yearly. "The program just kept evolving," she said. The Children’s Aid Society of OxfordCounty launches the 2009 Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention campaign at MapleLanePublic School MapleLanePublic School was the host location for the October 2009 awareness campaign. Also known as the Purple Ribbon campaign, the community is encouraged to wear or display a purple ribbon as a reminder that the protection and well being of a child is everyone’s responsibility. Political leaders, as well as representatives from community services such as Public Health, Oxford Community Child Care, Women’s Emergency Centre, Tillsonburg Hospital and other community services were on hand to bring greetings to the children and staff and add their promise to work together for all children’s protection and safety. This partnership with the Thames Valley School Board began is 2006 in Ingersoll and has moved to various schools across the county. The intent is to take the message to the children that adults in the community have a responsibility to ensure their safety and well-being. Children also need to know that they too have a voice and will be listened to when they express concerns for the safety of themselves or friends. The campaign reminds children of basic safety precautions when approached by a stranger or touched inappropriately. Say “No”, Get Away and Tell Someone should be their plan of action. They also need to know where the safe places are in their neighbourhood. Adults need to report when they have a concern about a child’s safety. It is the Society’s responsibility to confirm whether further investigation is required, and then take appropriate action. Although the topic might seem a bit scary, the presentation isn’t. It’s a positive message of safety and security for the children, knowing that so many people are working together for their well-being. Events in OxfordCounty over the past year have made the importance of this information to children even more relevant. The children received purple bracelets with the reminder message to “Use Your Voice”. Purple ribbons are available at the school office or by dropping into the Children’s Aid Society office. 
Land Purchased for New Facility September 02, 2009 Woodstock, ON The Children's Aid Society of Oxford County is pleased to announce that it has purchased property to enable the construction of a new facility. Oxford CAS has been located on the County Square at 92 Light Street since 1954, during which time there have been two major expansions, the most recent being in 1993. Unfortunately, there is no room for further expansion and the Society has outgrown the current building. In January 2009 the Society relocated 30 of its staff to 989 Dundas St. in order to relieve the overcrowding. In 2008 the Society began a search for a future site with the goal of remaining in the core area of Woodstock where services would remain visible and accessible. The new property is located at the corner of Wilson and Peel Streets and includes the former Chrysler dealership parking lot along with two adjoining properties which were previously residential sites. Oxford CAS has applied for federal and provincial government capital funding to assist with the construction of a new facility and is hopeful of a favourable response in the near future. "This is a first step towards our goal of having a facility that enable our staff to provide friendly and accessible services to the children and families of Oxford County for years to come", said Executive Director Bruce Burbank. For further information or questions contact Bruce Burbank, Executive Director at 539-6176, ext. 325.
PUTT a Child First
July 5, 2009
Sally
Creek Golf Club, Woodstock, ON
Sally Creek Golf Club in Woodstock recently hosted the first PUTT a Child First golfing opportunity for 34 children and youth receiving services from the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County as well as a few others selected from the community. The event was the brainchild of Sally creek golf pro and manager, Rick Flannigan.
Sixteen mentors from across the county, this year with a high representation from the Town of Ingersoll, came out to share the afternoon with the young people not only to coach in the playing of the game but to encourage about the prospects and possibilities for a happy and rewarding life in the future.
The game of golf provides young people with skills that will serve them well throughout their life. It requires respect for the rules and etiquette of the sport, willingness to take thoughtful risks after weighing out the options, patience and a willingness to let go of what not so great things may have happened and work harder for a better outcome. The game of golf gives opportunities for personal challenges for improvement and can be enjoyed without being in competition with others.
The youth were fortunate to be able to enjoy the event under sunny, clear skies on a warm summer day, another great reason to get out of the house and away from the television and video games!
The event involved an information session for the mentors, golf lesson for the youth followed by nine holes of golf on this very challenging but picturesque new course. The day wrapped up with supper and the presentation of photos from the day for both youth and the mentors, as well as backpacks filled with a variety of items donated by community partners for the youth. Prior to the start of the event all participants had received a commemorative golf shirt and hat.
The event, considered a success by all, could not have happened without the generous donation by SallyCreek of green fees, use of equipment, staff time and support, as well as the time organizing by many volunteers from the Society. A special thank you goes to the Society volunteer drivers and parents for getting the young people safely to and from the event.
'Wards of the Court' looks at CAS
Posted By Heather Rivers, SENTINEL-REVIEW
Even though they may say it, they admit they don't really know what it feels like.
While most people think they have some idea of what love is, two former foster kids said their upbringing in a group home has left them devoid of that emotion.
"I don't know what love is anymore -- we don't know how it feels," said Aulora Weeks, 18.
Weeks and her friend Miranda Bates, 19, spoke out about their lives after viewing Ottawa filmmaker Andree Cazabon's third film entitled "Wards of the Court" Wednesday morning.
"Wards of the Court" follows the lives of four youth under Children's Aid Society care, documenting the need for the youth to be connected to positive long-term relationships.
Bates said both her brother and sister -- who were both placed in more stable environment than she was -- are "doing great" and offers this advice to child welfare workers.
"Put (foster children) in a stable place instead of being in a group home," Bates said.
Weeks said she had difficulty holding back tears while watching the film because she identified strongly with the issues that it delved into, including the drug and street culture.
Cazabon, 35, was in Woodstock at the invitation of United Way of OxfordCounty, but also made a presentation to the Children's Aid Society of Oxford and Community Options for Justice.
At the age of 13, Cazabon fled her home in Northern Ontario after being sexual assaulted by her employer while working at a Sturgeon Falls farm.
"I very rapidly turned to drugs and alcohol," she said. "My journey into self destruction didn't end until I Cazabon hitchhiked to Toronto, where she lived on the streets and was being recruited into prostitution.
She was deeply shaken when her friend was savagely beaten, raped and killed by Cazabon's then boyfriend.
It was during this period that she became a ward of the Crown and experienced life in a group home.
She underwent drug and alcohol rehabilitation, and freed herself from a life of addictions.
Eventually she attended film school at RyersonUniversity, and has produced three documentaries included "Letters to a Street Child" based on the letters she received from her father while she lived on the street.
"Letters to a Street Child" was screened during the United Way's Annual General Meeting Wednesday night in Tillsonburg.
"Every kid comes into the system because of a disconnect in their primary relationship," she said. "We have to do the best we can to commit them to long-term and positive relationships within the community."
Without support, children leaving the child welfare system can easily fall into poverty, homelessness and addictions, she said.
"Our social workers spend most of their time doing paper work and liability than they spend time face-to-face (with their youth)," Cazabon said. "We need to shift from a housing model to a relationship model."
"We can't expect them to successfully parent themselves -- we need to support kids longer."
Cazabon said while the reality for foster-care kids can be very sad, it also can have a happy ending.
In her documentary a 17-year-old who spent years being bounced around the system finally found a family who said, "we will commit to you -- this is your home."
"It is very clear in the film -- kids do bounce back," she said. "They are not broken."
GEMINI NOMINEE COMING TO WOODSTOCK WOODSTOCK--The Children's Aid Society of Oxford County is proud to present Gemini nominee Andree Cazabon, who recently launched her third film on CBC Newsworld, "Wards of the Crown," which follows four youths exiting the foster care system. Winner of the best social-political documentary at the 2006 Golden Sheaf Awards, the film has been widely used as a discussion and action tool in communities across the country. She'll be at the CAW Hall, 126 Beale St., Woodstock, on June 17 from 9 a.m. to 12 p.m.. Her community involvement as a youth advocate and her films were featured on the "Vicky Gabereau Show," CTV's "Canada AM Show, "at the Vancouver Film Festival, and she has been written up in the Toronto Globe and Mail, the Toronto Star and other publications. Cazabon offers professional development through her films and has been a keynote speaker at a number of conferences. In her upcoming documentary series on the child protection system, "Six Within," she will work with communities to raise awareness and bring about changes for the 76,000 children in Canada's child protection system. For more information, please contact Marianne Riach-Ferris, PR Coordinator for the Society at 519-539-6176 x 377 or by e-mail at MFerris@casoxford.on.ca
April 22, 2009 Oxford's volunteers do make a difference | |
As Ontario celebrates Volunteer Appreciation Week -- April 19 to 25 -- the Children's Aid Society of Oxford recognizes the many from across the county who give of their time to support vulnerable children, youth and their families. Volunteers make a difference every day, each in their own way. Volunteer opportunities come in many forms. Each of Ontario's 53 mandated child welfare agencies are all governed by an elected, volunteer board of directors from the local community who provide leadership and guidance. Fifteen residents from across OxfordCounty choose to support the work of the Society in this manner. In 2008-09, more than 40 other volunteers for the Society also offered their services by helping with special events and fundraising, on the phone as a partner monitor of victims of family violence, being a special friend, providing occasional childcare or being a volunteer driver. The Society's drivers logged in 1,936,270 kilometers of travel making sure that children and their families remain connected, and ensured that children were able to attend programs and services that support their many needs. As Bruce Burbank, executive director for the Society stated in a recent newsletter to volunteers, "Thanks to the generosity and open hearts of the citizens of OxfordCounty our agency has an excellent track record in volunteerism. We simply could not provide all of the required services and meet the needs of our clients without the help of our volunteers." Oxford's most vulnerable children and youth need the help and support of people who care about their well-being. The Children's Aid Society of Oxford has many opportunities for interested community members to participate in improving the lives of children and youth. There are also opportunities to support individuals who receive services from our family violence unit. Skills, interests and time availability will all be taken into consideration when being matched to a volunteer role. Volunteers are part of a team and benefit from training and supervision so they can feel confident, comfortable and prepared and will be recognition for their contributions through appraisals, investments in training and letters of reference. Expenses are reimbursed. Volunteers report that they enjoy knowing that they are helping to strengthen families and supporting foster parents and staff. As this happens they feel that they are expanding their knowledge and skills, experience personal growth and enlightenment and build self esteem and communication skills. To get more information or apply to become a volunteer the steps are simple. Call for an appointment with the volunteer coordinator 1-800-250-7010 ext. 318 or 519-539-6176 ext. 318, attend an orientation, have an interview and provide references. Marianne Riach-Ferris PR Co-ordinator Children's Aid Society of Oxford
A Society is measured by the well-being of its children On Family Day, there will be no better time for us to pause and think about how we as a community are making sure that we are the best we can be. At a time of widespread economic uncertainty, the progress of Ontario's children threatens to be all but overlooked. That is why standing up for them and their families, has never been more important than right now. Too many of our children are being denied the basics of a safe home and adequate food and clothing. Statistics show that 40 per cent of food bank clients are children. One in six children in Ontario is living in poverty. A poverty reduction strategy that will sustain programs for children and their families, especially those related to the social safety net has never been more vital. Child welfare agencies provide supports to families when parents cannot provide proper care, housing and nutrition. Child protection services become even more crucial in times of fiscal restraints. Job loss, family stress, poverty and depression are among the causes of child neglect and abuse. Children's Aid Society's have reported that in the past, child protection caseloads increased up to 45 per cent within six to 12 months of a significant economic downturn. Because of the mandatory nature of our work and the need to take immediate action to protect children, Children's Aid Societies needed to have the resources the need to do this critical work. Over the past year, more than 77,000 allegations of abuse and neglect were investigated across the province, 980 of those were in OxfordCounty. More than 27,000 children were in the care of Ontario's Children's Aid Societies. Presently there are 220 children and youth in the care of Oxford CAS. Almost 40 per cent of women assaulted by spouses said their children witnessed the violence. In many cases the violence was severe. For the child who witnesses it, domestic violence is a form of emotional abuse and these children may become depressed, aggressive, delinquent, or display other emotional or behavioral challenges. Child welfare agencies become involved and support families in these circumstances. One-third of children seeking mental health services in 2007 were still waiting at the end of the year. There are too many children who aren't developing properly and may not reach their full potential. Access to mental health and addiction services for children and families continues to be a serious issue. Many children need social service supports to grow and develop. The result of limited services for any member of the family can be the breakdown of the family, stress leading to job loss, poverty, hopelessness and depression all of which affect parent's ability to care for their children. As we come to Family Day this year, we ask all residents of OxfordCounty to make our children and families, particularly the most vulnerable, a priority in our thoughts and actions. Their well-being is the true measure of our society. We need to ensure that services such as the Children's Aid Society of Oxford County that seek to support children and families are adequately funded so they can continue to respond effectively. At a time when so much is uncertain and strong families are more important that ever, we all need to work to ensure that our children continue to grow strong and healthy, in body, mind, and spirit. Marianne Riach-Ferris ,PR Co-ordinator, Children's Aid Society of OxfordCounty
'You only turn 100 once' Posted By Heather Rivers, STAFF WRITER Feb.10, 2009 
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If you happen to spot a yellow balloon floating over parts of the FriendlyCity, you might want to take the time to investigate a little further. Besides a voucher for a 40-inch (101.6 cm) plasma screen television, Leon's released 100 yellow balloons over their Woodstock location stuffed with gift certificates Tuesday. "It is worth following them," said Terry Leon, president of Leon's Furniture Ltd. Leonwas in Woodstock on Tuesday to help celebrate 100 years in business. After years of record sales and strong business performance, the home furniture specialists said it's celebrating its 100th year by giving back to the community, its employees and its customers. "You only turn 100 once," Leon said. While other employers are handing out pink slips, Leon's was handing out party bags to its associates to thank them for a job well done. "These are the ones responsible for the success we've gotten," Leon said. Other recipients of the birthday gift giving included the Children's Aid Society of Oxford County and Woodstock GeneralHospital. As part of a nationwide $1-million donation to community initiatives, the Oxford CAS received $5,000 worth of furniture to furnish a new youth room, while the hospital received $6,000 for an operating room suite. The Canadian Cancer Society also benefitted from the birthday celebrations, with 100 volunteer hours from Leon's staff members being dedicated to the Relay for Life event this June. But thanking the community for their "Made in Canada success story" doesn't stop there. Leonsaid this week the store will feature deep discounts, promotions and special offers as part of its anniversary celebrations. "At a time when things are slow, we're offering more to customers than we ever have before," Leon said. "We think it's the right thing to do and the rewards will follow." Leonsaid the chain has so far managed the recession "better than expected." "We saw it coming," he said. The Woodstock Leon's store has been run by franchisees Cathi and Roger Banghart since it was established six years ago. Roger Banghart said besides the community initiatives the Woodstock Leon's also supports the Woodstock Renegades and numerous other sports groups. Considered the oldest Canadian-owned retail chain of home furnishings, Leon's was founded by Terry Leon's grandfather, Lebanese immigrant Alban Leon, in 1909. Leonowned a grocery store in Welland, and when a customer offered to buy a mattress delivered to his store as a gift for his son, Leon's Furniture was launched. In 1969 the company went public and the first Leon's "big-box" store was opened in Toronto in 1973. The successful retailer is known for reinventing the way its customers paid for their merchandise with its famous "Don't Pay a Cent Event."
CAS marks Adoption Awareness Month
Always looking for interested people
By Stephan Kleiser Tillsonburg News November 21, 2008
November is Adoption Awareness Month.
And the Children's Aid Society, which is responsible for the safety and protection of children, is using that opportunity to not only thank and recognize current adoptive and foster parents, but also to spread the word about the need for and benefits of adopting and fostering.
Of course, whenever it is possible, CAS works to keep children with their own family. But when that is not possible, a child may be brought into the care of the CAS.
According to Linda McKnight, an adoption worker with the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County, foster care is the first choice in these situations because most children's needs are best met in a family environment.
She added CAS is always looking for adoptive homes for children in their care and children in care across the province.
And anyone interested in adoption, is encouraged to contact CAS.
“There is a lot of information available and we also offer the necessary training and all other resources you require,” McKnight said.
“Information sessions are offered year round and the P.R.I.D.E. training program (Parent Resources for Information, Development and Education) is offered to inform and educate prospective parents on the challenges and rewards of this lifelong commitment. PRIDE sessions run several times over the course of a year.”
Cindy Male, an adoptive parent of three youngsters, said the support groups for adoptive parents are great - not that she has encountered any problems.
“Our experience with adoption has been overwhelmingly positive,” the said during a recent telephone interview.
“But it is nice for anyone considering adoption to be aware of the resources that are available to them.”
“It is really important to know that we are here to assist people,” McKnight said, “and I invite anyone with any adoption-related questions to call us at anytime.”
One of the programs offered by CAS is AFTER (Adoptive Families Training, Educating & Relating), which is made up of a group of adoptive parents who come together to share their experiences, ask questions, learn from each other, and learn from child experts.
Male is a member of that group and said it has proven a great resource for her family. She said it’s just nice to be able to meet with and talk to like-minded people.
And they also host regular family events so that children have an opportunity to develop friendships with other adopted children as they grow.
And while foster parents provide a temporary home for children who are in the care of the CAS - anything from just a few days, weeks, months or possibly years - adoptions are often a long-term solution, especially for young children.
According to McKnight, foster parents and CAS staff work together as a team to develop a plan for each child in care. The ideal plan is usually to reunite a child with their family. However, if that is not possible, the plan may include adoption or long-term foster care.
Foster parents provide stability and a caring home that encourages a child's growth and development. While the legal responsibility for the child remains with the agency, foster parents play an important role in the child's daily life.
Foster children range in age from infancy to 18 years and come from a variety of racial and ethnic backgrounds.
Foster families receive a daily board rate for each day the child or youth resides in their home. Many other expenses are also covered, such as clothing, medical and dental costs, school supplies, lessons, transit fares, etc.
McKnight said CAS is always looking for people who have a strong motivation to help children and who are willing to learn. She admits the process may seem a bit daunting at first, but “we (CAS) are here to make it as comfortable as possible.
“If people have ever considered either adoption or fostering, I encourage them to get in touch with us,” McKnight said. “We are happy to explore all the available options with them.”
Since January, CAS as placed 21 children in adoptive families with another 20 awaiting final approval.
Local foster parents needed By Nancy Boutin Staff Writer Marianne Riach-Ferris sees little miracles everyday. As public relations co-ordinator for the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford, Riach-Ferris knows the vital role played by foster families here in Oxford, and the difference these individuals can make for children in need. Sadly, even though there are 114 foster and kinship families locally, there are still not enough spaces for children who can’t remain with their families. When a child requires placement with a foster family, said Riach-Ferris, a spot is ultimately found. Unfortunately, she said, sometimes it simply isn’t possible to place the child locally, and they must be sent to a foster family outside OxfordCounty. For obvious reasons that scenario is less than ideal, she said, adding the CAS prefers to have children placed locally as often as possible, and also to place children in the care of kinship families whenever possible. Last year there were 324 children in the care of the Children’s Aid Society, and with that number growing, Riach-Ferris said the need for more foster families is critical. “Our foster parents help provide good care to a child until he or she can be reunited with their families,” she said, adding foster parents help build a child’s confidence, and provide stability, support and a nurturing environment. A foster parent can be married or single, and before being matched with a child, must undergo extensive screening to ensure that not only are they ready for the commitment of being a foster parent, but that any other members of the family are ready as well. The process generally begins with an in-home consultation, said Riach-Ferris, where the would-be foster family learns exactly what fostering entails. After that process there is a 10-week training course whereby prospective fosters are evaluated for competency, and to see whether or not they can meet a child’s emotional and developmental needs, support a positive relationship with the child’s birth family, reinforce the child’s cultural identity, and work as a team with CAS and other agencies for the child’s wellbeing. A safe home assessment will also be carried out, as will a police and medical records check, and several questionnaires about the individual’s values and their family members’ readiness to welcome another child into the mix. “You’re looking at at least six months (for approval),” said Riach-Ferris. Although the decision to foster is a major one, families or persons who opt to provide foster care aren’t left out in the cold. Riach-Ferris said a local Foster Parents Association not only advocates on behalf of foster parents and their young charges, but provides support, and planned activities for both foster parents and their children. In addition, foster parents receive a per diem rate that helps cover costs of things like clothing and other expenses, and the medical, dental and vision care costs of foster children are covered also. The CAS also covers the cost of any recreational activities in which a foster child is registered. Although the amount of time a child spends in foster care is ultimately determined by his or her situation, Riach-Ferris said, a foster parent or foster family can have a tremendous impact on a young person’s life. “At times we see real miracles,” said Riach-Ferris, adding that while bad news tends to make headlines more readily than good news, foster parents do wonderful things for children and their families each and every day. “Our foster families amaze me,” she said, “in that there’s always such a high bar set for them, and they always manage to exceed it.” While the decision to become a foster parent shouldn’t be entered into lightly, Riach-Ferris said anyone who’s serious about doing it should contact her at 1-800-539-6176, extension 373.
Looking for a few good families Posted By Carla Garrett, STAFF WRITER October 30, 2008 
WOODSTOCK - For 16 years, the Woods have been fostering children in OxfordCounty. Now they want you to try it. "I think people need to step up to the plate and give it a try," said Cheryl Wood, president of the local Foster Parent Association. "There is a great need." About half of the children needing care are sent to homes outside of the county because of a lack of foster families here. "Our kids should be here," Wood said. Bruce Burbank, executive director of the Children's Aid Society of Oxford, said some children are living with families east of Toronto. "There is a real need for more foster parents so we don't have to send kids so far away," Burbank said. The number of foster parents has grown by about 30 per cent in two years, but the society said they need another 30 per cent. Last year, 324 children were in the care of the local society. Some were placed with local foster families or with kinship families, while others were placed in group homes and foster homes outside the county. There are 114 foster and kinship families currently in OxfordCounty. Wood remembers very clearly how she got started. She was watching cablecast when a ticker at the bottom of the screen came across advertising the need for foster homes. "I saw it consistently and kept seeing it and seeing it," she said. "Finally I said something and then made the phone call." The couple had not yet had a child of their own and had never thought about fostering before. Within two days of completing their training, Wood and her husband Rick were paired up with a child in need. That was in 1992. Now, 16 years later, the Woods have fostered more than 100 children and teens. "Fostering is a rewarding experience, a chance to make a difference one child at a time," she said. Currently, they are caring for a seven-year-old boy, a nine-year-old-girl, a 11-year-old boy and a 17-year-old. At one time they had four teenaged girls living under their roof. They also have a 15-year-old son of their own. "He loves it," Wood said. "He interacts with them and has fun with them." She added if anyone is interested and has children of their own, it's important they are on board with the idea too. And no family is left to fend on their own. "They don't just place a kid in your home and walk away," Wood said. "There is lots of support. You just have to pick up a phone and someone is always there." WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW - You must be 21 years of age or older - You don't have to be a stay-at-home mom, it can be a single-parent family, same-sex couple - You must complete a 10-week training program - You must love children - You are financially compensated on a per diem basis; in addition to clothing allowance, Christmas and birthday money - All of their dental and medical fees are covered - You can specify the age, sex of child For more information contact the Children's Aid Society of Oxford County at 1-800-250-7010 ext. 373. October 14, 2008 Local children's aid scores high Posted By Carla Garrett, STAFF WRITER The provincial government has given the Children's Aid Society of Oxford County an A in its latest review of services there. The society achieved a score of 80 per cent in its handling of Crown wards, which are children in the permanent care of the society. The Crown Ward Review, completed by the Ministry of Children and Youth Services, reviewed 70 of the 100 or so Crown wards in OxfordCounty. "What makes this more significant is that Oxford is one of only a very few agencies in the province to have an increase ..." said Marianne Riach-Ferris, public relations co-ordinator at Oxford CAS. She said some agencies' rates dropped by as much as 20 per cent. "We all strive for 100 per cent, but in today's climate it's very difficult to reach 100 per cent," said executive director Bruce Burbank. Despite tougher standards and more children, the local CAS still managed to improve over last year's rate of 77 per cent. "This is one of the few measures that we have of the work that we do so we should celebrate this achievement and congratulate all of our staff who contributed to this," Burbank said. Kathy Morwood, manager of the child services unit, said they have been working hard to provide the best long-term care for the children and youth. "We have focused a lot as an agency on planning and assessment," she said. Much of the planning is looking at where the youth will go when they turn 18 and are no longer in the care of the Children's Aid Society. Morwood added they have also introduced programs to provide the youth with a voice. Other youth initiatives include an annual recognition event where successes of individual youths are celebrated, whether it's a graduation or sporting activity. "It's customized to each child," Morwood said. The review also highlighted how the society makes "excellent use of community resources and the social workers are strong advocates" for the children and that "all of the children reviewed are appropriately placed and well cared for..." Of 41 children who completed a confidential questionnaire, 37 of them said they felt wanted and cared for in their home.
Child abuse and neglect still a problem Posted By Carla Garrett, STAFF WRITER Child abuse and neglect is still a major problem in OxfordCounty, the local Children's Aid Society said this week as they launched the annual purple ribbon campaign. October is Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention month. "It's a provincial campaign to bring awareness to the fact this is still an issue," said Marianne Riach-Ferris, of the Oxford CAS. During the campaign, children's aid societies across the province are reminding the public of their responsibility to protect children by reporting suspected abuse. "Secrecy is the best friend of child abuse," said Riach-Ferris. "It keeps it undercover and allows the perpetrators to continue on." She said the abuse does not have to be confirmed before it can be reported. "It's just your duty to report...andours to investigate," she said. She said people should speak up if they hear yelling and screaming or if they notice changes in a child's behaviour. "If it turns out to be nothing, it's nothing," she said. "It's just better that it's reported." In 2005, a survey by the Ontario Association of Children's Aid Societies found 54 per cent of Ontarians wouldn't report suspected signs of child abuse. Eighty-five per cent of respondents said they'd report child abuse or neglect only if they were certain it had occurred. Over the past year, societies across the province have investigated 77,089 allegations of abuse. The local society received more than 2,000 calls of concern that resulted in more than 800 investigations. CAS Oxford provided shelter to more than 300 children and youth over the year and averaged over 200 at any given time, said Riach-Ferris. For local information or to report child abuse and neglect contact the Children's Aid Society of Oxford County at 1-800-250-7010 or visit www.casoxford.on.ca A provincial website has also been launched at www.useyourvoice.ca
October 2008 MORE THAN 300 CHILDREN AND YOUTH WERE IN CARE FOR PROTECTION Child Abuse and Neglect Still a Major Problem in Oxford Last year, more than 27,000 children and youth under 18 years of age were in the care of Ontario’s Children’s Aid Societies for protection from suspected child abuse and neglect. The Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County provided shelter to more than 300 children and youth over the year and averaged over 200 at any given time. A report released indicates that: 1 in 100 of all of Ontario’s children were in the care of Children’s Aid Societies 77,089 allegations of abuse or neglect were investigated by Children’s Aid Societies across the province. The local Society received more than 2000 calls of concern that resulted in more than 800 investigations. 24,955 families received ongoing service from Children’s Aid Societies to help them protect and care for their children, locally the number of families receiving services and support was 1300. “Our children are a gift and we need to cherish them and provide the best possible opportunities for them to grow and develop in a safe, secure and loving environment,” said Jeanette Lewis, Executive Director, of the Ontario Association of Children’s Aid Societies. Child abuse is a serious concern for all Ontarians because many children are at risk of abuse or suffering from lack of proper care. “This societal problem needs everyone’s attention because too many families are coping with stressors and challenges affecting their ability to provide a safe, secure home for their children with insufficient services and supports,” adds Lewis. Everyone has an ongoing duty to report when they see or hear that a child is suffering from any form of abuse from a parent, caregiver or adult whether physical, emotional or sexual or if they learn that a child is living in appalling conditions or has no place to sleep or enough food to eat. All Ontarians have a responsibility to protect children by reporting suspected child abuse and neglect to their local Children’s Aid Society. Children’s Aid Societies help children when a concerned citizen or professional calls to report their suspicions or a parent calls for assistance. When a call is made to a child welfare agency, a clinically-trained child protection worker can act immediately to save a child’s life or can support families coping with challenges and stressful situations. Child welfare agencies become involved with families when there is a risk of emotional, physical or sexual abuse to a child, when children are exposed to domestic violence in the home, or when parents cannot provide proper care, housing and nutrition for a child. Children that are physically abused may have obvious bruises or marks on their body. Children abused emotionally or sexually may exhibit behavioural indicators and children who are neglected may be malnourished, appear unkempt or inappropriately dressed. Ontario’s Children’s Aid Societies have launched their annual Child Abuse Prevention Campaign for the month of October and the local Society wants to remind the public about everyone’s responsibility to protect children by reporting suspected child abuse because, as the theme of this year’s campaign states, “kids shouldn’t have to live with abuse.” Ontarians are encouraged to learn more about the signs of abuse, how to recognize it by visiting the campaign website at: www.useyourvoice.ca. To read the report released by the Ontario Association of Children’s Aid Societies, Ontario’s Children in Care, visit www.oacas.org. For local information or to report child abuse and neglect contact the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County at 1-800-250-7010 or visit our website at: www.casoxford.on.ca
September 17, 2008 Children’s Aid Society of OxfordCounty achieves positive results in recent Ministry review. The Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County recently participated in a Crown Ward Review and Executive Director Bruce Burbank is very pleased to announce that the Society achieved a compliance rate of 80% which is an improvement from last year. The annual Crown Ward Review completed by the Ministry of Children and Youth Services evaluates the level of care and services provided to children for whom Oxford CAS are legal guardians. What makes this more significant is that Oxford is one of only a very few agencies in the province to have an increase in compliance whereas most agencies have decreased, some by as much as 20%. Compliance is a measurement of how many cases met all the Ministry requirements for the care of children who are in the permanent care of the Society. The decline for other agencies is being attributed to tougher standards that have been put in place which makes the local Society’s achievement even more noteworthy. This year there were 70 children reviewed. Here are some of the highlights from the preliminary feedback that was received. · The Society makes excellent use of community resources and the social workers are strong advocates for our children; · planning for the children is an area of strength and is well documented; · all of the children reviewed are appropriately placed and well cared for; · notwithstanding the fact that some of Oxford’s children are placed outside of the County the social workers have made conscious efforts to keep them connected to their home community; · there were 41 children who completed confidential questionnaires – 37 of those children said that they felt wanted and cared for in their home. Mr Burbank stated that, “This is one of the few measures that we have of the work that we do so we should celebrate this achievement and congratulate all of our staff who contributed to this.” One of the challenges that Oxford CAS continues to face is finding placements for children closer to their home community so there will be an ongoing campaign to recruit more local foster homes. “These are Oxford’s County’s children and they should be able to remain in Oxford when they need to come into care” said Mr. Burbank.
CAS names new executive directorPosted By Carla Garrett, STAFF WRITER The Children's Aid Society of OxfordCounty has appointed a longtime Woodstock resident as its new executive director. Bruce Burbank will assume the role with the local society as of July 28th Cherie Hall, past president of the board of directors announced Wednesday. "The board of directors is pleased to have a strong, local candidate for the executive director's role and welcomes Bruce to the Children's Aid Society of OxfordCounty family," Hall said in a press release. Burbankhas lived in the community for 20 years and boasts 25 years of frontline and senior leadership experience in the child welfare sector. He is currently the director of services for the Children's Aid Society of Brant and has previously worked for the Children's Aid Society of Oxford. "[He] will be a vital addition to the society's staff team in delivering the very best services for children and families in OxfordCounty," Hall said. Burbankhas a Masters in social work from the University of Toronto and has completed the University of Western Ontario Queen's Leadership Program. He also holds a national certificate in voluntary and non-profit sector management from the Canadian Centre for Philanthropy. In the end, it’s the children who will pay
One Person's View Kristi Setterington
Thursday March 27, 2008 Forty-six of the province’s 53 Children’s Aid Societies are running deficits. Included in that group is the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford.
Blame is placed on the cost of implementing Ontario’s 2006 Transformation Agenda, which has put financial pressure on the societies. The idea behind the agenda is that children should remain with family or someone they know, if possible. But what this means is more staff are now needed to supervise cases and that more money is needed for families in need of subsidies.
A proposal meant to benefit the child, may in the end hurt them.
Chris Steven, executive director of the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford told the Sentinel-Review that because the agency is running an estimated $860,000 deficit, it may need to cut certain programs such as the kinship care program. Marcelo Gomez-Wiuckstern, communications director for the Ontario Association of Children’s Aid Societies, said permanent placements such as adoptions may also be at risk.
Oxford isn’t the only agency considering cutting programs. In the Waterloo Region, Going Beyond and Outreach, a program aimed at keeping at-risk adolescents at home has already been cut. In Windsor community living partners have been notified that CAS will no longer be able to fund its program aimed at young adults between the age of 18 and 21 who are developmentally challenged.
Children and Youth Services Minister Deb Matthews confirmed knowledge of the problems facing the agencies, but added it’s up to the agencies to operate within their budget. But when you dealing with children who have been abused or neglected, you can’t simply say "sorry we have no more money."
With so many groups and agencies fighting for dollars from the government, it’s difficult to say one is more important than another, but in the case of the children’s aid societies, these children are at risk.
The agencies investigated 80,000 cases of possible abuse and neglect last year, Gomez-Wiuckstern said. If funding needs can not be met, he said agencies fear their ability to provide protection will be compromised and in turn our most vulnerable citizens could be harmed.
Steven said he has already contacted politicians, in the hope of promoting the need for additional funding. We can only hope the government, will take action and provide for these children and their families.
Oxford CAS running deficit
By Nicole O’Reilly STAFF WRITER
Wednesday March 26, 2008 WOODSTOCK - OxfordCounty is one of 46 children’s aid societies in Ontario running deficits, threatening funding for programs central to many local children and families.
Even with additional, one-time funding from the Ministry of Children and Youth Services earlier this year, the Children's Aid Society of Oxford has an $860,000 deficit, said its outgoing executive director Chris Steven.
The Ontario Association of Children’s Aid Societies has 53 agencies and says the combined deficit is growing, from $22.5 million this fiscal year to a projected $60 million for 2008-09 - which starts April 1.
Before the $35 million funding boost for the OACAS in late February, Oxford’s deficit was forecasted to be $1.9 million.
Steven assures the deficit is not due to mismanagement of funds, rather the cost of improved services and a more than 20 per cent increase in cases over the last couple of years in Oxford.
The Transformation Agenda from 2006 is guided by the principle that children should remain with family, or someone they know, if possible. This policy shift means more staff are needed to supervise cases and more funds are needed for families in need of subsidies.
"We very much support the transformation changes, we are working very hard to make the changes and we are seeing lots of benefits," Steven said. Some of the most important programs implemented under this policy have not received adequate funding and are at risk of collapse.
In addition, a 30 per cent growth in staff hired to cover caseloads, has not been met with funding for the subsequent administrative costs, such as new computers for the incoming staff.
"Our board of directors is very worried," Steven said, calling the funding "arbitrary."
Steven highlighted several at-risk areas.
There are 83 families currently receiving funds from the agency, to help subsidize the cost of transit and childcare, among other things. Without this funding, the children would be removed from their home and placed in a group home or foster care.
The kinship care program is also at risk. Should a child be removed from his or her home temporarily, this program attempts to place the child with a family member or someone they know. The surrogate is often subsidized.
"We have a very strong group of grandparents caring for grandchildren in Oxford," Steven said, adding that many would not have the means to continue to care for their grandchildren without financial assistance.
He also points out that in the long run the cost to tax payers to support children in group homes and foster care is greater than the cost of these programs.
There were also 16 adoptions last year, where the families receive continued financial assistance due to special circumstances or special needs. Children’s Aid spent $60,000 on these families last year.
"It’s an ethical dilemma because we know its what is best for the children, but if we can’t provide financial resources we will have to remove the children from these homes," Steven said, adding that he is especially concerned considering problems with violence and drugs in the community.
He has been to several OACAS meetings this year and sits on a number of child safety committees. Steven said he has also been in contact with local members of parliament, in hopes of promoting additional funding.
"I would also like a review of current funding eligibility," he said. "And year-to-year financial planning should be consistent."
Children service programs have already been cut in other Ontario communities including Waterloo and Peel regions.
Steven bids adieu By Heather Rivers STAFF WRITER
Tuesday March 18, 2008 WOODSTOCK - After two years in the top leadership role at the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford, executive director Chris Steven has announced his resignation.
Steven’s last day at the organization is May 31.
He is leaving for a position as executive director of Family and Children’s Service Niagara Region, a multi-service organization that has three times the budget of Oxford’s CAS. He will begin that position June 1.
"It’ll allow me to work in areas I haven’t previously," he said. "It has nothing to do with this organization or this community. The opportunity has been great."
Previously, Steven worked for the London-Middlesex CAS. From July 2004 to March 2006, Steven acted as a policy analyst for the service system redesign for the Child Welfare Secretariat of the Ontario Ministry of Children and Youth Services and later served as acting manager for the Child Welfare Transformation Policy.
Part of Steven’s responsibilities during his tenure was to guide OxfordCounty through the transformation agenda, a package of reforms in the areas of legislation, policy and funding.
Steven said during his tenure, the organization has accomplished a great deal in a short period of time, including "renewed and strengthened relationships" with community partners.
Steven said during the last two years, the organization increased service volumes by 20 to 30 per cent, increased the staff component by 30 per cent and increased the budget from $10.2 million to $15 million.
"Organizationally we had a strategic plan," Steven said. "A number of these things had been identified."
Included in that strategy, was the implementation of a "strength-based approach to working with families" designed to "improve levels of respect."
"We wanted to create an open for business environment," he said.
Steven said leaving OxfordCounty will be difficult.
"It’s tugging at my heart strings," he said. "I have grown to love the people here. I’m impressed with the dedication of staff and managers. I’m going to regard myself as a friend of the Oxford CAS - if they allow me to - for years to come."
"I will miss this place and will watch with interest as it continues to grow and develop."
Steven said he also valued his relationship with local media, which he called "responsive to community issues."
Executive Director of local Children’s Aid Society among the recipients of Province of Ontario’s prestigious Amethyst Award Chris Steven, Executive Director of the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County was recently (June 19, 2007) recognized at the annual Amethyst Awards presentations in Toronto for his outstanding contributions while seconded to the Ministry of Children and Youth Services’ Child Welfare Secretariat from 2004-2006. In his role as Senior Policy Analyst, Steven was the policy-lead, with a focus on permanency planning that ensures stable and enduring homes for children in care and encourages the maintenance of significant familial and cultural relationships. These policy developments include an emphasis and requirement for Children’s Aid Societies to consider the participation of members of the child’s extended family or community in both the planning and care for the child when they are not able to remain in their own homes. His responsibilities also included acting as the instructing policy-lead for the development of Bill 210 (Children & Families Services Statute Law Amendment Act) proclaimed in November of 2006, as well as being the Manager of the Child Welfare Transformation Policy across the seven areas of transformation, including the development of regulations for Bill 210. The policy and the legislative changes now provide all Children’s Aid Societies in Ontario with the ability to respond to children and families in a more customized and respectful manner with the goal of achieving improved outcomes for children. The new legislation expands the system for children to have permanent homes, permits the use of Alternative Dispute Resolution as an alternative to the use of the courts, and establishes a greater accountability for responding to client complaints The Amethyst Awards, established in 1993 recognizes the achievements of Ontario Public Servants, individuals and groups, who have made outstanding contributions in client service, innovation, valuing people and professional achievement. In Premier McGuinty’s address to the winners, he commented, “In every ministry, in every office, in every job they do, Ontario’s Public Servants strive to make a real, positive difference for Ontario families. We are proud to recognize the work of a public service that is second to none.” In recognizing the Child Welfare Secretariat team it was noted that it had undertaken an extensive and complex process of transforming child welfare in the province. By demonstrated leadership and innovation they had achieved excellence in the protection of children and the promotion of their well-being and that of their families and the community. Since his appointment as Executive Director of the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County in July of 2006, Steven has had the opportunity to implement this new and progressive provincial policy and incorporate these changes in the services provided by the local Society. Together with the Board of Directors, Steven has supported the efforts of Society staff, foster parents and volunteers as they work towards meaningful and beneficial changes in the lives of children and families in OxfordCounty.
112th AGM- “A Celebration of Youth” The 112th Annual General Meeting of the Children’s Aid Society of OxfordCounty, “A Celebration of Youth”, took place this year in Woodstock on June 20th. Cherie Hall, President, Board of Directors, introduced dignitaries Warden Paul Holbrough, Sandra Talbot, Deputy Mayor of Woodstock, Linda Whiteford representing Ernie Hardeman, MPP of Oxford County and the Province of Ontario, Louise and George Leck from the Ontario Association of Children’s Aid Societies, who all brought greetings to those in attendance. Cherie Hall also shared letters of greetings and congratulations from Dave Mackenzie, MP of Oxford County, and Mayor Stephen Molnar of Tillsonburg. In her report, the President highlighted the work that had taken place over the last year to develop an ambitious strategic plan for the Society that has been approved will now be implemented over the next few years. She acknowledged the contributions made by the community, staff, foster parents, volunteers and board members to develop this plan. During her report she also commented on the incredible growth and the number of changes within the agency over the past year under the leadership of Chris Steven, Executive Director, and his management team. Ms. Hall concluded by commending everyone for their dedication, hard work and commitment to providing children and families with promising futures. In Chris Steven’s Executive Director Report, he referenced the Service Review within the Annual Report noting a marked increase in all areas of service including a 33% increase in the number of families served. He also outlined the implementation of Child Welfare Transformation, Human Resources initiatives and fiscal responsibility in the midst of all these changes as well as the provision of needed additional funds by the Ministry of Children and Youth Services. Rhonda Henhawke of Ingersoll was presented with the 21st Annual Jack Ross Memorial Award given in recognition of an individual who has performed outstanding service beyond the call of duty to children and/or families of OxfordCounty. Rhonda’s recognition comes for her 20 years of commitment and leadership to the Ingersoll Minor Soccer Association. The Board of the Society also acknowledged two outgoing board members. Richard Wood has just completed a six year term and had been actively involved on several committees. As a foster parent, Rick was able to bring valuable insight from that perspective to the work of the Board. Over the past 15 years, he and his wife Cheryl have welcomed more than 100 children into their home. Rick was presented with a life membership in the Society in appreciation of his contributions. The other Board member recognized was Maria Odumodu, who has served on the Board of the Society for several years and has been a strong advocate and supporter on behalf of children and families of OxfordCounty through this work. She previously had received a life membership in the Society. For those attending the Annual Meeting another highlight was the recognition of 16 children and youth in care for their personal and academic achievements over the year. The audience heard accounts of triumph in the midst of incredible challenges, young people taking on leadership roles in their community to deal with social issues, and achievement of personal bests by many. The meeting was a celebration of accomplishments over the past year, but also a window to what the community in partnership with the Society may look forward to, as together they work toward the vision of “promising futures for children” of Oxford County.
FOSTER HOME NUMBERS IN OXFORD, TILLSONBURG INADEQUATE FOSTER: Experience worth it, says Wilna Garon By Nathan Taylor Staff Writer, Tillsonburg News Friday November 24, 2006 Children can be removed from their homes for a number of reasons, but the agency that oversees that relocation has one immediate intention: getting the kids to a safe place. Those havens, unfortunately, are increasingly becoming farther from the children’s homes. The Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County can use Tillsonburg as an example. Forty-five kids in CAS care originate in the Tillsonburg area, but there are only 10 foster homes in town. In all of Oxford County, there are just 46 homes. The children, then, are being introduced into not only a new family setting, but often a geographical one, as well. “The need is urgent,” said Chris Steven, executive director of CAS Oxford, “but it’s really more of a question of ongoing capacity. What’s making it urgent is the increasing number of children that are needing to be cared for outside of Oxford County.” More than half of Oxford kids in CAS care reside beyond county limits. That represents 88 of 175 children. Eighty-seven reside in the county. “We don’t want to send them away from their home areas,” Steven said. In some cases, foster kids have needs – certain behavioural or clinical issues, for example – that “may require more support” than is available in the county, Steven noted. “It’s not uncommon for children in foster care to have complex needs, like behaviour-management challenges, learning challenges” that could be caused by abuse or neglect, he said. Whatever the case, chances are Rob and Wilna Garon have seen it. The Tillsonburg couple has fostered nearly 50 kids between the ages of two and a half and 19 in the past five and a half years. They also have two of their own children, who are three and seven years old. “It’s not uncommon to have an 11-year-old with a drug problem,” Rob said. “We probably have seen some of the worst of the worst.” “Not bad kids. Not bad parents,” Wilna assured, faulting poor parenting skills in some cases. Luckily, the Garons have the tools for the job, thanks to both past experience and the CAS. With a diploma in child psychology, Wilna has worked at the Tillsonburg Upper Deck Youth Centre and spent two and a half years providing “alternate care” for troubled 16 to 18-year-olds in Woodstock. Rob’s mother ran a home in town for about 20 years, caring for elderly residents with mental health issues. The CAS helps out by providing continuous training and resources to foster parents, and through PRIDE (Parent Resources for Information Development and Education). PRIDE, a pre-service training program, focuses on “the teamwork between foster families and other professionals involved in the child’s life,” Steven explained. PRIDE is a competency-based framework to more effectively recruit foster parents and provide ongoing training and assistance. The requirements to become a foster parent are “quite intensive,” Wilna said, “but it’s worth it. “Everybody works together. If we don’t, I don’t believe this would work,” she said. The Garons, currently caring for four foster children – the maximum allowed before it’s considered a group home – between the ages of four and 12, agree children should remain as close to their homes as possible. They also understand that cannot happen yet – the reality of the statistics. In the meantime, they try to make the kids feel as at-home and comfortable as possible. Open communication is the key here,” Wilna said. “We never talk to them like they’re kids. They’re all respected,” Rob added. “What they have to say is also important.” The kids also need to be aware that “we’re not here to take mom and dad’s place,” Wilna said. “We’re here to help them all get on track and get them back home safely. We’ve had many kids return home, which is good. Sad, but for the best.” But, Rob acknowledged, “The hard ages are the teen ages. “You get a teen that’s yanked out of their home, and they don’t want to be in foster care,” he said. Take it from someone who’s been there. Sara, who requested her real name not be used, left her Woodstock home in March 2000 at the age of 15 because of physical abuse from family members. “A friend called Children’s Aid and said I was being abused. Then the cops got involved,” she explained. “It was either go home, which they didn’t recommend, or go to foster care. Being 15 and scared, you take the option.” She remained worried, wary and unsure of what exactly the CAS was. “I knew the CAS was a place that took kids,” she said. “It was just scary. I was going to a new home where I didn’t know anybody, but it was also exciting because you get to start a new life, meet new people and you’re in a safer home. At first, I didn’t think it was a good thing, but after a while, I realized it was one of the best things that could’ve happened.” If the CAS hadn’t become involved, Sara, now 22, is sure the animosity at home would’ve led her to “turn to things I shouldn’t.” The altercation that would result in Sara’s introduction to the CAS arose from an argument with her mother over completing a household chore. Sara’s brother then involved himself. The situation between the three of them became physical. To this day, however, Sara does not hold a grudge. “There’s always ‘forgive and forget.’ Your real parents are always a part of your life, and you want them to be in your life,” she said. “Mom dealt with it the way she was raised: discipline through abuse.” Although forgiving her mother and brother was a difficult step to take – “I didn’t want to sit in a room with my mom,” she said – Sara had a coach help her though the meetings scheduled with her family. Sara never did move back home, but she learned a lot about foster care and the CAS; enough so to offer some advice to parents whose children are in care. “CAS isn’t there to take your kids away for the rest of their lives. The parents need to stop and think, and say, ‘Maybe this is the best thing for my kid,’” she said. Sara was able to stay in Woodstock throughout foster care, but many aren’t as lucky, Steven reminded. “You can’t be losing families at the same rate as you bring new ones in. We simply need more of these families,” he said. “These children are in distress. Don’t underestimate that your contribution might be what’s needed to make a difference in a child’s life. These are real children. We’re hoping the community will respond.” Steven emphasized the agency’s No. 1 priority: getting the kids back into their homes as soon as safely possible. It often represents a turning point in the child’s life. “I’ve never had any bad feedback from kids after they’ve gone back home,” Wilna said. This, Rob said, is because “when the child leaves care, they’re a little more educated.” They’re a little more thankful, too. “It was heaven here,” Sara said of her foster home. “My foster parents… they praise me now, but, because of them, I didn’t feel scared and all alone. I knew I had somewhere to turn to.” Sara remains very close to her former foster parents after leaving their care last year. She knows she’s welcome. That’s something the Garons tell their foster kids before they leave. “We always let them know that, no matter what, Wilna and Rob are always there for them,” Wilna said. They also encourage others to consider fostering. “If there’s a family out there that has time and room and love, they should consider it,” Rob said. Don’t make any assumptions about the requirements to become a foster parent. “People have been concerned that they don’t have the traditional family and won’t be approved by the CAS,” Steven said, urging anyone who is interested to call. Foster parents are provided with financial and other supports for mileage, recreational activities and more. For more information on foster parenting or becoming a foster parent, call the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County at (519) 539-6176 or visit www.casoxford.on.ca. “The need is urgent…What’s making it urgent is the increasing number of children who are needing to be cared for outside of Oxford County.”- Chris Steven
Children’s Aid asking for help
The Ingersoll Times By John Tapley - Staff writer
Wednesday October 25, 2006 Oxford County has the lowest ratio of children in care to foster homes in the province, Chris Steven, executive director of the Children’s Aid Society (CAS) of Oxford County.
“I simply don’t accept that the people of Oxford think this is okay,” said Steven when he made a presentation to Ingersoll council on Monday last week.
The agency has 189 children from Oxford, including 24 from Ingersoll, in care at the moment and only 46 foster homes. That means that about half of the children are forced to live outside the county.
“We hope to increase the number of foster homes in Oxford County to between 75 and 100,” said Steven who took over as Oxford’s executive director recently.
He said one of his goals is to increase awareness about the local CAS to try and keep Oxford children in the county and generate interest in adoption.
“It’s your children’s aid society,” he said.
He encouraged people to call the agency and get involved, whether it’s to
volunteer, educate others about CAS or consider adoption.
“If we could bring children into the room and let them tell you their stories, I’m sure it would become far more compelling for you,” Steven said.
Grandparents and single parents can care for children, he said.
“We are not looking for the traditional nuclear family,” he said. “We are looking for people with an interest in children.”
Steven appealed to councillors to take up the cause and help the agency build a higher profile.
“We would like you to help,” he said.
The Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County can be reached at 539-6176 or 1-800-250-7010.
Long-serving foster parents honoured
Lonsbarys involved for 35 years By Jeff Helsdon - Staff Writer
Wednesday October 18, 2006 The Tillsonburg News — After raising their children, most parents breathe a sign of relief and wait for grandchildren to come on the scene. But many of the volunteer foster parents for the Children’s Aid Society of Oxford County continue to parent long after their children have grown up.
Two of the society’s longest-serving foster couples were honoured at the annual awards banquet on Friday night at the Elm Hurst Inn for helping raise over 50 foster children each over more than 25 years.
Art and Ruth Anne Lonsbary of Tillsonburg are the society’s longest-serving foster parents, starting 35 years ago in 1971. Since that time, they have fostered over 85 children. The children have ranged in age from newborns to 19 year olds and have been in the Lonsbary’s care for short term, long term, relief and emergency fostering.
“I really like kids and wanted to fulfill a need,” Ruth Anne said of the reason they originally started fostering.
“It’s rewarding,” Art added.
The Lonsbarys have a special interest in fostering infants and currently have three babies under 16 months in their care.
“Ruth Anne has developed strong skills in transitioning the placement of children from her home to adoption homes,” board secretary Deb Almost said during the presentation. “Ruth Anne has demonstrated strong leadership in welcoming adoptive parents into her home and has been able to maintain contact for the benefit of the children. She also has been willing to work co-operatively with the biological families of the children in her care.”
Jack and Marg Crawford, who live east of Salford, recently celebrated 25 years as foster parents.
“When the kids grew up, she couldn’t cook for one person so she had to get in some more to cook for,” Jack joked as the reason they got involved in fostering.
Over the years, they have fostered over 60 children and still have two infants in their care. Many return to visit often and it’s not uncommon for there to be as many as five former foster children at their dinner table on Sundays.
The Crawfords’ special skills in working with troubled teens allowed them to have their home designated as a Teen Boys Home in the 1980s. They were also involved in the Foster Custody Program and Special Foster Care Program. At that time, it was common for them to have four teenagers in their home at a time.
For the last seven years, they have fostered younger children.
Two Woodstock residents received special awards during the evening.
The Isabel Scott Memorial Volunteer Service Award, which pays tribute to dedicated volunteer the late Isabel Scott, was awarded to Dianna Skillings of Woodstock. She has been a volunteer driver with the society for five years putting as many as 5,000 kilometres a month on her vehicle, as well as being a foster parent.
“Dianna is always busy helping someone, working with the elderly, caring for her young grandchildren, or spending six days a week driving for the Children’s Aid Society,” said Stephen Nelson, vice-president of the board.
“Dianna mixes good advice, and active listening with her care and support, making her a nurturing and exceptional volunteer.”
The Jack Ross Memorial Award was established in recognition of the commitment and contribution made to the community by the late Jack Ross. It is presented to a resident of Oxford County who has performed outstanding service beyond the call of duty to children and/or families of Oxford County.”
Constable Bob McDonald, also known as “Constable Bob” to school-aged children was the award recipient this year. He is the community services officer with the Oxford Community Police, Crime Stoppers co-ordinator and a driving force in the drug awareness program.
“He gives countless hours of free time every year to the youth throughout, not only Oxford County, but other areas as well,” said board president Cherie Hall when she presented the award. “His satisfaction seems to be in the knowledge that he is keeping some youth from getting involved with drugs and possibly destroying their lives.”
McDonald purchased a trailer at his own expense, in which four educational videos are shown. Often, he sets up the trailer on his own time.
“While Bob is running the displays, he is always talking to youth on a variety of issues including drugs and school, helping children understand his role within the community while teaching kids that police are good and safe people to talk to,” Hall said.
Other service awards were presented to parents for years of service. Recognized for five years of service were Dennis and Sheila Froude, Wilna and Rob Garon, Catharine Hudson and Norm Meron, Max and Cynthia Maschke and Peter and Cindy Swanson. Mark and Teresa Farrell and June Habekost were recognized for 10 years of service.
Volunteers who received awards for five years were: Robyn Ross, Dianna Skillings, Amanda Ficht, Myrna Miles. Ten-year awards were presented to Pat Cadman and Ruth Robinson. Agnes Vandergriendt was recognized for 20 years of service.
Staff service awards for five years of service were presented to: Tracy Dobbie, Connie Law, Lisa Brodeur, Dee Chambers, Ruth Lavoie, Colleen Clark, Tracy Harnish and James Brown. Lorrie Foster and Frieda Schmidt were recognized for 15 years of service. Peggy McAskile received an award for 20 years of service and Anne Kirczyk-Jewlal for 25 years.
ANNOUNCEMENT: Director of Service Hired Date: September 5, 2006 I am pleased to announce that Paula Walton has been hired as the Director of Services effective Tuesday, September 5th, 2006.
Paula has extensive service and management experience in the field of children’s services including child welfare, children’s mental health, prevention/early intervention and youth justice. Paula was a front-line protection manager with Timiskaming Child and Family Services for 10 years prior to being promoted to the role of the Director of Service, a position which she held with the Timiskaming agency for 4 years. Since April 2006, Paula has worked for Chatham-Kent Integrated Children’s Services on secondment as the Manager of Children’s Services & Special Projects. Paula has a Master of Social Work Degree from WilfridLaurierUniversity and a Bachelor of Social Sciences Degree from the University of Ottawa.
Paula’s broad experience and extensive knowledge of child welfare significantly enhance the Society’s capacity to effectively implement the new provincial Child Welfare Transformation Agenda. Those who have worked closely with Paula describe her as conscientious, highly professional and supportive of staff. Paula’s engaging and respectful approach to working with other community partners will bring strength to the Society’s efforts to build a collaborative community response to the needs of children and families in OxfordCounty.
Chris Steven Executive Director
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR TO START IN EARLY JULY
by Heather Rivers - Staff Writer
Tuesday June 20, 2006
The Woodstock Sentinel-Review — With 25 years of child welfare expertise behind him, Chris Steven is set to take the reigns of Oxford County’s Children’s Aid Society in early July.
The new executive director will help guide the local child welfare agency through some sweeping changes scheduled to begin at the end of the year.
"I’m looking forward to and am very excited to be working in OxfordCounty," Steven, 50, said from his London office. "I think it is a great opportunity."
Steven’s child welfare expertise, combined with a strong background in community relations, along with his experience with new transformation agenda, made him the perfect candidate for the job of executive director, said John Lessif, president of the board of the Oxford CAS.
"Chris has a strong reputation as someone that people enjoy working for and with and he will be a very positive addition to the committed community leaders in the children services sector and beyond," added John Liston, interim executive director of the OxfordCountyCAS.
Steven has worked for the London-Middlesex CAS since 1980. His most recent position was director of children and youth services. From July 2004 until March 2006, Steven acted as a policy analyst for the service system redesign for the Child Welfare Secretariat of the Ontario Ministry of Children and Youth Services and later served as acting manager for the Child Welfare Transformation Policy.
Part of Steven’s responsibilities will be to guide OxfordCounty through the transformation agenda, a package of reforms in the areas of legislation, policy and funding set to be unveiled later this year.
Steven said the reforms would affect three service areas including "differential responses with more effective engagement with families and communities."
"It will be a more customized response to family situations," Steven said. "They’ll be more flexibility - but with a clear focus remaining on the child."
The transformation will also incorporate alternate forms of dispute resolution and "permanency planning," which focuses on finding permanent family-based care for children in the custody of the CAS.
"So that children don’t have to grow up in the care of the CAS," he said.
A focus on permanency planning will also incorporate "more openness in adoption," he said.
Steven said child welfare research capacity has been increased which will permit societies to work closely with universities and other research facilities.
Steven said reforms that took place within the agency in 1999 and 2000 were driven by several Ontario child welfare tragedies.
"They were focused purely on risk - not necessarily good social work practices," he said. "In other words … I would describe (the changes) as a better balance."
Steven described the changes as "very progressive" and a first for "policy-driven funding of child welfare in Ontario."
The reforms are expected to come after changes to the Child and Welfare Act take place in November of this year.
"Obviously we’ll have some implementation challenges," he said. "But I think the (Ministry of Child and Youth Services) is on the right track."
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